If another person is a pain in the ass

If another person is a pain in the ass
you can be annoyed by it,
and then:
they won

you can be amused by it
and you are
free

you won, not the struggle
but the life you want to live:
one free of being pushed around
by ridiculous forces

free to be the happy, creative,
amazing
person you want to be

If another person is a pain in the ass

And you get angry they win

If you get curious or calm or loving
or once again, amused:
then you are on the way to being a
real person

which is a very fun thing to be