less force, and more...

to learn
we need to perceive something
new

if we get in a jam
we often want,
as parents,
or as anyone,
to try to bash on through

as if doing what we were doing
that didn't work
and using a louder voice
or tighter grab
or more frantic air
will get things to the next place
we want to go

unfortunately,
this might work,
with everyone feeling rotten,
but they got bullied
along

maybe
this is not
such a good idea