love and not love

say your partner picks
at your food
when you are eating together
and it
"drives you crazy"

you could say:
this bothers me

you could say:
this is fun

you could say:
i love you doing something
that drives me crazy

you could ask:
could you stop
and then we then
don't
love
that

love
is something like this:
what you do
is so sweet and charming
to me

sometimes even
more
when you do things
"I" don't like

and is the "I" who
doesn't like
what other people
are up to
the real
me?